Knowing what to say to a girl to get her interest is important but what is more important is first knowing what to say to yourself so that you are excited about the opportunity to attract more girls into your life.
Often we don’t have the fun, exciting or romantic relationships in our lives that we would like to have because we may put all of our eggs in one basket. By this I mean that we think there can only be one girl in the world who is the perfect one for all time.
This is a very limiting belief to have when you are looking to expand your options and increase your odds of finding the perfect girl for you. Just like in other area’s of life, for example a game that you really like playing usually involves trying out a lot of different ones before you find one that you really like.
Knowing what to say to a girl is easier when you realize that girls think different than guys do. Girls tend to make decisions from their feelings, what they hear and what they see from you. So what you have to do to get a girl interested in you is to first let her know,(by using the right words) and show her (by doing the right things) that you are interested in her.
It’s important to mention that you don’t want to over do it. Depending on what type of girl you are approaching will determine how much interest you should show in them. Some girls, (especially very pretty girls) who get a lot of attention, don’t want to be seen as easy and will not respond to a easy approach. With this type of girl, you have to work on being the type of guy that she is attracted to before you will have much of a chance with her.
What To Say To A Girl You Like
What attracts most girls is something that they would consider fun or exciting and by showing a interest in what she likes or what she thinks is fun or exciting you will always know what to say to a girl that you like.
Girls like guys who like what they like. If you want the best chance of connecting with a girl that you like, you should find a pleasant way to connect with her. This can often be done by first giving her a warm, friendly greeting (for example, smile and say “hello, how are you”) This will work on someone you see everyday or someone you are just meeting for the very first time.
By smiling and giving her a friendly greeting, you are showing your friendly intentions and that you have a general interest in her wellbeing. This is a very subtle but effective first step. Her response to your approach will be your best indicator of what to say next. But if your primary concern is to connect with her and build a ongoing relationship you should focus on being positive or upbeat in your communications.
Here are some tips on what to say to a girl to attract her to you.
1.) Always start with an appropriate (warm and friendly greeting) ex. Hi (her name or )
2.) Say something witty that will throw her off guard and make her smile. Something like “You look like the kind of girl that really enjoys making new friends, am I right ?” or “ I couldn’t help noticing you noticing me, so I thought I’d come over and give you a chance to meet me(smiling)”.
3.) Once you have established a good rapport with her, then it’s time to show more interest in her. This can be done with a direct question like “So, what does a girl like you like to do for fun ?” or “have you seen any good movies lately ?” this will let you know exactly what she is interested in and you can continue the conversation along those lines.
4.) It is important that you express some of your interest as well, if she shares those interest that’s great and you can develop more conversations along those lines as well. However even if she doesn’t share an interest in them, then you know what conversation not to talk about with or around her.
By following these steps and making adjustments as needed, you will surely always know what to say to a girl to get her attention and have her interested in you.